1. Remember that they headline of the post is more important than the post itself. Your title has be to enticing so that people can be able to read your posts. If your title is not attractive then no one will look at your blog. The title has to be interesting to a point where people share it on their own social media pages without a doubt. 

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2. The size of the post matters. Avoiding dividing the subject of your blogs into different posts or a series of blogs. You should always have all the information shared in one blog. Don’t keep your audience in suspense for too long. If you have too much information to share then choose what is more important and relevant. And anyways, people don’t like reading long texts and they don’t like have much time. Blogs that go viral are the ones that are very short, straight to the point and easy to read. 
3. Write about something people want to read. If your content is not informative, people will not read, comment or share it. You content has to be consistent, if you are writing about Health, then stick to health topics. 
4. Don’t talk about the same subject more than twice in a row. Where is the creativity in that? If you happen to write the same subject twice, people might like it the first time but the second time they might not like it as much so can you imagine how it would be if you would try for the third time. Give the audience something that will encourage them to come keep coming back for more.
5. Know the next timing to post your blog. We rush to post our blogs as soon as we finish writing them even if it is in the early hours of the morning. But this would not be a great idea or the timing for our target audience. It is best to publish when there is traffic on the internet, around 2pm-5pm GMT from Monday- Thursday. Always schedule your posts so that you don’t miss out.
6. Use styling to increase your readability. Readability is important if you what your post to be read. Design your posts in different ways so that they can be attractive. On one you can have a list with bullet points or numbers than some other time you can just have content without any styling but write your posts more creatively because people don’t like reading long texts.
7. Optimize you posts for search engines. Remember you should always write for the audience and not for Google or other search engines. This way your content will have less meaning. But you can be able to cover both these basis without losing your credibility. You can use the theme of your blog as a tool to rank on Google and to attract more people to your blog. You can also use hash tags and SEO plugins.
8. Link your content in the right way. If you are using extra links for your blog. You need to make sure that those links go hand in hand with the content. You have to let your audience know what you are talking about.
9. Images sell your blog. A picture can say a lot about the message you are trying to get across than content can. So when you choose your images, choose photos that will stand out.
10. Make sure your styling is consistent. You have to use the same styling for your blog, that way your audience can identify with it. Everything about your blog has to be on point all time to keep up with the momentum. 
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What is beauty through Christ?
In the eyes of the Lord, we have always been told that we are beautiful regardless of what the world says and their standards. But do we really understand what beauty is through Christ? In the eyes of
the Lord the true beauty of a woman is on the inside and the outside. How a woman looks in the eyes of the God is more important because that is beauty that doesn’t fade nor ceaseThis is the beauty that every woman should work to keep. There are scriptures that give us the exact examples of what God finds attractive in us.
1 Peter 3:3-4 tells us, “Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel—rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.” God wants us to be of quiet spirit. This doesn’t mean we have to be silent and not speak our mind. But it means that we should not have argumentative spirit. We should not be too quick to judge, argue or fight to have our way. We should be peaceful and respectful to others. The book of Proverbs talks about women who are angry and how difficult it is for others to live with them nor communicate with them. This is the kind of woman that is not attractive in the eyes of the Lord. 
An attractive woman in the eyes of God is one who doesn’t compete with men. She understand the strengths and value that she possess. A woman who fears God is also seen attractive to the Father. She has to put God first and strive to do what He has commanded her to do. She has to continue strengthening her relationship with Him so that she can grow spiritually. 
Proverbs 31: 30 reads, “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.”
It is within every woman’s reach to become the beautiful woman God intended her to be. She should be beautiful on the outside, beautiful on the inside and, most importantly, weshould be beautiful to God. Remember God doesn’t see the way man does. I Samuel 16:7 says, “But the Lord said to Samuel, ‘Do not look at his appearance or at his physical stature, because I have refused him. For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.’” God looks a lot deeper than the physical appearance. This scripture shows us just how God looks at us. 
A woman’s beauty is goes a lot deeper than just the physical appearance. Many women believe that physical looks is all that is required, and pay little attention to their inner beauty or how they look to God. They end looking nice, but in the long run have very little other value.
We should strive to be beautiful inside and outside. We should take care of yourself physically, develop and maintain your inner beauty, and most importantly, strive to look your best to God!

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An easy definition of religion is that religion is man’s try to reach God. Being spiritual is opening ourselves to God’s impact on our entire being. Let us see the difference between these aspects.
Religion focuses on what pleases man. Being spiritual focuses on what pleases God. In our generation, what we see people do is what they believe to be right according to their religion. A lot of changes are made to what is spiritual in the eyes of the lord to suit a religion. People do amazing things; artist create the best art. Poets, writers and singers play with words to soothe their souls all in the name of religion. People tend to choose churches through their size, location, and visibility inside the community. Part of this judgment is how properly the minister of the church entertains the congregation. A great speaker can bring a lot of people into the church as long as he does not offend and brings lots of humour to his listeners. The mega churches of our day are groups that have found out this formulation and do it properly. 
The New Testament indicates spirituality as a vivid alternative to religion. John the Baptist and Jesus did not come to the world as smooth-talking, sharp-dressing, aesthetically-attractive individuals. Paul worked as a tentmaker and Peter turned into a fisherman. The early Christians were not the wheelers and dealers of their time. 
Religion follows man’s requirements whilst spirituality follows God’s requirements.
Religion involves feelings and externals while spirituality includes the complete being. Religion has a tendency to tell humans to react to their emotions and express them visibly. In In today’s modern times, there’s an emphasis on wearing things that angry individual express their convictions and doing things which are dominated by using their feelings. This is done by preacher who don’t teach these people how to stay motivated even when they are alone
Spirituality involves one’s total self in their relationship withGod. The Christians in 2 Corinthians 8: 3-6 have been identified by means of Paul as being of special spiritual nature due to the fact they gave themselves to God. The image we get of church inside the first century is not of entertaining preachers in fancy homes, but human beings assembly collectively regularly in houses–sharing their burdens and needs and supporting one another within the demanding situations of everyday existence.
While we look at the teaching of Jesus and the apostles, we see very little appeal to feelings. Jesus used parables which required His listeners to suppose and purpose. A lot of His coaching was to have His situation country an understanding after which He would complicated on it. Paul spent over a year at a school (Acts 19:9) and reasoned with the human beings in terms where they may think. Whilst he saw the artefacts of worship on Mars Hill in Acts 17:28, he declared God to be a God in whom we stay and pass and feature our being. 


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Year in and year out we always set goals and resolutions that we hope to achieve throughout the year. But as the year goes by, it gets very difficult for us to follow through with our plans and that can be very frustrating as we discover that achieving goals is more than just saying or writing what we desire; but being committed, focused and consistent. To avoid the frustration, there is a better way for us to achieve our goals and that is through God and there are scriptures that can lead us in the right direct. Let’s look at Philippians 3:14; “I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” 
We have to desire the best so that we can be able to train and exercise harder during the offseason so that we can prepare our minds and bodies to reach our goal for the upcoming season. We have to pray and be disciplined through the waiting period in the God will take us to the Promised Land (the achievement of our goals).
In order for us to achieve our goals we have to make sure that they are in alignment with God’s words and understand His vision for our lives. We should not look at goal setting and achievement in the eyes of the world as that would be defying the laws of our Father. When we set goals according to God’s vision for our life, we will be more focused, creative and be energised to keep pressing on. Most importantly we will be less stressed. 
Achievement through God need us to have deepest desire which will give us energy to carryon. Without desire we can’t really achieve our goals because then they become wishes which never come true. We have always be taught that we can have anything that we want, but truth is, we can’t have everything we want but only what we need.
We must have enhanced faith, not only to belief but to know that all that we do will come to pass. We should expect it and it will happen. The most important characteristic is to change our habit. Make achieving our goal a priority/a habit. We have to keep working on it until it comes to pass. We have to maintain our reality. We also have to cheerful put effort into achieving our goals because we are confident that the rewards will be worth it. Our intention can literally our lives as we make our goals into a reality as our minds will be 100% focused into achieving your goals.


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Respect your body for Christ 
1 Corinthians 6:12-20 gives us great examples of what God says about the importance of your body to His word. Today I want to take you through the verses of this scripture to show you how important your physical health makes a big part of your spiritual life. 

Verse 12: “All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be dominated by anything.” Our bodies are a gift from God and he has given them to us for a reason therefore we have to use it according to His will.
Verse 13: “Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immortality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.” Our bodies are the sole property of the Lord therefore they have to be used for His glory.
Verse 14: “And God raised us up by His power.” Our bodies are a temple of God therefore one day He will resurrect your body and give you a better version of yourself.
Verse 15 & 18“Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ. Shall I then take the members of a prostitute? Never. Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.” In God’s eyes sin against the body is the worst kind because He considers the body as His precious treasure. Our bodies are connected to Christ, we have to respect it.
Verse 19&20: “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” This is my favourite verse because it goes straight to the point. Our bodies are not ours, but Gods because he bought them by giving up His one and only begotten son. What more can we ask for.
With all that being said. I just wanted you to see that you are valuable, you are a treasure. Keep your body is great shape and honour God. 

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Overcoming infidelity in a relationship with God
Sometimes it is difficult to act happy or be thankful when you are still waiting for that 1 thing that every person in the world longs to become, a parent. Sometimes it is difficult to find happiness and joy when you are going through trials and tribulations. But we have to keep going, you have to keep your head up and look at the amazing things that God has given you. If you are finding it difficult to keep your head up, here are a few things you can try to hang onto:

God is supreme and boss of your life. Here is one thing that you need to know; you are not in charge of your life and even the bible tells us so. Yes He has given us an opportunity to save souls but He is in charge of everything else. He is the one who brought us into existence therefore He will not seat and watch you stay in pain.
God knows that is best for you for you, He always does what is best for you. There is one who knows what we need and what is best for you than God. God gives some people more space and chance to plan out and implement their plans more than he allows others to even dream. But that doesn’t mean that He loves some people more than He loves others. God loves us all the same and everything works together for God for those who are called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28) We need to understand that God sees things differently than we do and His timing is always perfect.
God’s timing is always perfect. God is wiser than we are and His timing is always perfect. There are some things that God doesn’t and we can never understand until we meet face to face with but rest assured everything that He does benefits us. He chooses different people for different and unique tasks because He know what we can handle. He can’t entrust some people with His valuable gifts until He has prepared them to handle those gifts. 
Yes no one likes to suffer but suffering chances our character and brings us closer to God which produces good results in our lives. During this time we draw closer to God and more away from our circumstances. We focus more on what we need from God than what we are experiencing in this life.

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Learning patience through God
Part of becoming spiritually mature is learning the difference between “no” and “not yet,” between a denial and a delay. The Bible tells us, “He who is coming will come and will not delay.” (Hebrews 10:37 NIV)

If you’re discouraged because God is delaying to answer your prayers, then you have to understand that the delay is NOT a denial. Just because the answer hasn’t come – YET – that doesn’t mean God is not going to answer or that he’s forgotten you or that he doesn’t care about you.
It simply means “not yet!” So you have learn to be patient. Not only once but for every minute you spend working to pass the test. Until you pass the test that God has given you, you will not see any changes in your life. But you have to be patience in your journey and you might not feel the pain of the wait. You have to let the patience be you, it should be a part of your life or rather your lifestyle. God tests you so that you could you can realise His faithfulness in all your trials. 
There is purpose in the process of your trials. Hebrews 12:2 says; waiting on God forces us to look to Him. We are forced to cast our eyes into Him as the source of our faith. It reminds us that Christ’s death and life is the reason we can be filled with and empowered by the Holy Spirit. Trials cause us to continue by increasing our knowledge of God and relying on Him on all that we do. Standing patiently when we wait on the Lord does not mean being stuck at a dead end or in the middle of nowhere. Ephesians 6 tells us to “put on the full armour of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then.” 
To hold ground by remaining obedient to the Lord while waiting is not being passive. Realise that the word stand is repeated three times. Patience is an act of the will to claim ground for the Kingdom of God, and is rewarded richly by Him. Revelation 3:10-11 talk about God’s care for those who persevere through the battle.
Whether we feel we lack patience to wait on God, or to continue to love those that may be hard to love, we do it knowing that we have access to all the patience we need. We can trust God to give us the strength to bear our circumstances and instead wasting time questioning Him and trusting in Him and His word.

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How to build traffic to your blog and grow your social media following using Facebook groups?

Do you want to build traffic to your blog? Are you looking for ways to bring attention to your blog or business on Facebook? If you are sharing good content but you are not seeing your blog or Facebook audience and traffic grow then keep reading these tips to help you grow audience and traffic. 

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Add a Facebook Like Button or Box to Your Website
People who visit your website are highly likely to become fans of your Facebook page. But how to move them from just visiting your website to liking your page on Facebook?
The easiest way to get a like from your website visitors is to include a Facebook Like button on your website. Using the button allows visitors to like your page without leaving your website. What could be easier than that?
You can place the button wherever you like on your website—perhaps in the sidebar, header or footer.
You can also add the Facebook Like button to thank-you pages that appear after someone signs up for your mailing list, submits a lead form or makes a purchase. Since those visitors have already connected with your business in one manner, they will likely connect with you on Facebook as well.
Include Your Facebook Page in Guest Author Bios
If you publish content on other websites, use your author bio to promote your Facebook page.
Connect Profiles With Pages
Here’s a simple thing you (and every company employee) can do to promote your Facebook page: Add your company as your current employer in your personal profile’s Work section. When you do, you’ll be linking directly to the company page so others can click over at will.
It’s easy to add the link. Go to your personal About page and edit your Work and Education informationClick Add a Workplace and select your Facebook page as the company.
After you enter details about your position, check the “I currently work here” box and choose the dates as applicableMake sure the visibility is set to Public and click Save Changes.
What this does is ensure that there’s a link to your Facebook page everywhere your profile appears on Facebook.
Promote to the Right Audiences
Instead of using the Promote Page option on your Facebook page itself, go to the Facebook Ads Manager and create an ad to promote your page. Facebook ads allow you to target your page promotion ads to the specific audiences you want as Facebook fans.
Create Facebook Groups
Facebook groups have several benefits. For example, most groups on Facebook get a higher organic reach than pages do. That’s partly because when people join a group, notifications are already set and they’ll know when new posts are added in the group (fans have to set up page notifications manually). Other perks include sharing files with your group members and tagging other members for conversational purposes.
In groups you’re interacting with others through your personal profile, but you can focus on your business, industry and related subjects.
You can take the approach of creating a group specifically about your business or you could create general groups based on a particular industry, interest or location.
Posting and promoting engaging content is key to growing your Facebook audience and your blog.Share interesting news about your industry, start discussions on topics pertaining to your niche, tell special stories about your business and pose questions to get to know your audience. Including a link to your Facebook presence in everything from personal profiles to signatures to ads impacts your growth.
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Infertility is not there when you have God
Infertility is the most painful experience any woman can go through. It may seem dark and lonely but you must always remember that God is with you in that time. He is moulding and shaping you; calling you in a deeper and more loving relationship with Him.

Like any challenging journey we face as Christians, infertility will end. Yes it will be long, hard and painful but it will end. You just need to believe that God is doing something miraculous, He is working on healing you womb and He will bless you with the gift of being a mother. You also need to keep in mind that God will heal your womb, He will heal your heart and to give you understanding. 
You have to take a back seat and let Him charge. Surrender all to Him and continue to praise Him even though your hands are still empty. Show God that He is worthy of your trust and He will entrust you with the greatest gift. Find reasons to be thankful and thank Him for each and every little thing that you have. Don’t focus on your fights and struggles but focus on all that you have even if it doesn’t seem big enough.
Infertility is not of God therefore don’t let the devil convince otherwise. Stay in your lane, keep praying, believing and trusting in God to give you everything that you have asked for.

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